From the monthly archives:

January 2008

An ability to see beyond the pale,
Recognizing hope in the shadows,
Trusting first and foremost in love;
Questioning allows for discovery –
An independent view of the world,
Finding wonder in unlikely nooks,
Taking refuge in discovered beauty;
Aesthetic purpose is proven worthy.

Not simply to be sought but created,
Via means personal and miraculous,
Through more than possible alone;
More than creation from only within –
Not just given but allowed in as well,
Born both of intention and request,
Granted as journey and destination;
Nothing but children can encompass.

White Bird Flying
The innate art in all that is organic,
Exists as fact as well as fulfillment,
Internal naïveté becomes a choice;
With childlike wonder thus achieved –
The need to be and have a child met,
So an inherent wisdom is imparted,
For beauty infuses all said and seen;
Thus self-doubt may stand idly by.

All hesitance is ever more in check,
Seeking truth rather than reasons,
Knowing order exists despite chaos;
Choosing inspiration over defeat –
All is perceived with a loving heart,
Becoming more complete every day,
Fostering creations formed and found;
Artistry that goes beyond the page.

© Dorian Rhodes 24 January 2008

(|_|*cheers*|_|)
I love you with ALL my heart & all to pieces, Momma! <3 xox
May this be the start of an amazing year
filled with truth, beauty, freedom & love..

PS: This wonderful painting is one of my mum’s creations;
“Hold fast to your dreams, for without them life is a broken winged bird
that cannot fly.”
~ Langston Hughes ~

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Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s dream was ultimately one of compassion for it’s through sympathy that we’re able to recognize each other’s humanity & find common ground. No matter how great or small the issues, nor how different someone may seem, we must remember how alike we are when all is said & done.

“I look to a day when people will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.”

Character is born of personality & forged by experience. Those two forces are different for all of us & the combination even more so yet we ALL face common experiences with similar personality traits. While we individualize them as we grow (both figuratively & literally), they are all but identical at their core.

“An individual has not started living until he can rise above the narrow confines of his individualistic concerns to the broader concerns of all humanity.”

Amidst the need for food & lodging are the desires for expression & companionship; these are the very pursuits that motivate each & every one of us. Although the results are varied, the reasons are the same. From our most basic inspirations — love, fear, happiness, sadness — to our greater aspirations, like self-fulfillment or altruism, we’re taking the same journey.

“Every man must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness.”

The paths differ immensely but the people on those pathways are just that; PEOPLE! None of us are intrinsically more or less than another. When someone’s beliefs, speech, actions, culture, looks or — God forbid — existence comes into question, we need to personalize being questioned for who we are. I sincerely hope none of us would stand for it.

Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.

As valid as it is to live & let live, may we all work toward empathy & not settle for apathy. Every single one of us is making choices based on the same criteria; it’s just the specific criteria that differs. So, rather than getting caught up in the whats, whys & whences of those for whom no kinship is felt, look past those insignificant differences to the sameness — the humanness.

“Everything that we see is a shadow cast by that which
we do not see.”

Even if empathy & altruism do not come easily, remember too that any grudge or hatred born is borne by YOU. It’s when it’s acted upon that others are most clearly affected yet it will not only be a burden to bear but too often is the source of silence. When we struggle to understand someone, that struggle is entirely our own so its positive and negative results belong to us as well.

“The ultimate tragedy is not the oppression and cruelty by the bad people but the silence over that by the good people.”

It’s a simple but inescapable truth that freedom for ourselves requires freedom for others. Standing aside when someone else is in jeopardy or simply in need of understanding effectively leaves us standing on line to be next. It’s also true that we learn more about ourselves by learning about others. Moreover, loving who we’d like is inextricably connected to loving who we’d never imagine.

“I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great
a burden to bear.”

Make it a day ON, not a day off.Imagine how you’d like to treat those you deeply care about.. To whatever extent we’re able to care for those we thought we never could, we increase our ability to care & how we’re cared for. Regardless of your interests, compassion quota or current ability; it only takes a moment to be considerate &, each time you allow yourself to consider someone else’s perspective, you’ve made the world a better place.

“Life’s most persistent and urgent question is,
‘What are you doing for others?’”

This year’s theme for the observance of Martin Luther King, Jr.’s birthday is Remember! Celebrate! Act! A Day On…Not A Day Off. Let’s remember then how little it really takes to make a difference as we celebrate our differences & act far more compassionately to each other hence forth!? Do as much or as little as you can, knowing that every effort is added to a collective whole that will see us all to a greater good.

“Everybody can be great… because anybody can serve. You don’t have to have a college degree to serve. You don’t have to make your subject and verb agree to serve. You only need a heart full of grace. A soul generated by love.”

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All quotes by Martin Luther King, Jr.

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There are any number of words starting with E, N, T & P — not all flattering — that could & may be offered up to describe me. The ones that together describe my personality though are Extraverted, iNtuitive (I’m not the one that cheated, ‘I’ was already taken by ‘Introverted’), Thinking & Perceiving. I first tested my personality with this approach over 20 years ago which either attests that I was a precocious teen or I’m getting a few years under my belt.. or both. :eek: Either way, the results were the same so — whatever that says about me — it bodes well for this online test.

CLICK to view my Personality Profile

The version I took two decades ago was far more in depth in its testing & results but this hugely simplified online counterpart gets kudos. I’ll try not to bore you with too many of the results it does offer for, should you find me enough of a curiosity, you may look for yourself.. On a slightly borg-like note; my “Primary Function” is apparently “Extraverted Intuition” & I do have a funny feeling that I’d like to share with EVERYone but that may just be the current lack of caffeine. *brewing* WHEW; my caffeine — er — blood’s flowing again. **coffee for everyone**

As an ENTP, I’m termed an “Originator” — essentially for original thought — & I admittedly perceive that as quite a compliment; even more so, given some of the company I’m in:

Tesla, in particular, is happy-making in that I could hope for no better company & I’m thrilled he was included at all as he’s too seldom acknowledged. I’m awfully glad as well to have Ed’s company since there are few enough female ENTPs, especially to whom I can relate from the examples the site provided. You may have noticed, however, that I’m almost equally an ENFP so it would seem it’s as an “Advocate” that I’m doing this original thinking. Yes, 3% is marginal; as opposed to how Hillary’s New Hampshire win over Barack was reported. They even won the same number of delegates but I digress.

This balance of two personality types leaves my primary function unchanged; wherein “different possibilities are thought of, realizing that there is always another way of looking at things.” It’s my secondary function that then has to find balance between “knowing what I value & knowing how things work.” While my tertiary functions build on this same balance with a logical approach to feelings, my least dominant function is true of both my thinking & feeling halves (give or take a percentage or three). So, in either mode, I have “the ability to link present experiences to past experiences in search for a connection.”

Perhaps more telling is what I’m not. Between my two interwoven personality types, I have a personality comprised of six of the eight distinct functions of personality. My two seemingly absent functions juxtapose “living ‘in the moment’ & having a sense about the future.” This may well be because I actually do both which I recognize as rare & neither outweighs the other so as to cancel each other out test-wise. In practice though, they are symbiotic. I see life for what it could be while making the most of what it is. That ever-present awareness of what the future may hold frees me to enjoy every moment without concern for what has yet to pass.

What wise quote fits you?
Your wise quote is: Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising everytime we fall. ~ Confucius
Yes indeed, you see true strength can only be seen when a person has ‘fallen’. Only then can one tell how they will handle it. Just don’t make others fall so you can know who they really are. You, on the other hand, recover very quickly and don’t let people bring you down. You are your own, and you’re fine with that. Emotional issues are something you handle rather nicely.

Some schools of thought set you up to be so focused on the future that you’re harboring regret for the present. I can’t think of anything sadder. I am absolutely an advocate of positive thought & know first-hand how powerful it can be but it shouldn’t distract us from recognizing, simply put, what is. Some things just are & that’s okay; we don’t need to berate ourselves for them or try to be something we’re not, much less bypass an opportunity to accept something real for that’s where ultimate truth is planted. In regard to personality, surely my long-standing ENTPness shows that we do have traits inherently; it’s what we choose to nurture that makes us who we are. Thus, this is me; informed by my head but governed by my heart..

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“Joy is the holy fire that keeps our purpose warm and our intelligence aglow.”
~ Helen Keller ~

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What are we worth?

11 January 2008 SITE-seeing

Encountering the death of someone I didn’t even know existed but am grateful to discover did creates a poignant ambivalence. Certainly it matters more that a life be impactful than long but, when someone’s making a difference, oh that they could have more time to do so. The clichéd thought that the good die young [...]

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Two thousand infinity ∞

3 January 2008 Holi-DAZE

Resolutions are always in question with the start of each new year. Of course, we should pursue all that’s important to us as we’re able. The date isn’t going to change whether we care enough to follow through. Much less will a change of calendars enable you to take on multiple things at once. It’s [...]

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