From the monthly archives:

May 2008

Coffee is a beautiful thing! Although not loved by everyone, it is loved — by everyone who counts blogs. I kid, I kid because I love! It’s really caffeine that is a widely shared addiction &, just as it’s enjoyed in various forms, coffee comes in almost enough varieties to please every palette. There are those who judiciously avoid caffeine & some of them have managed to keep coffee in their lives though this is typically why someone would — gasp — not drink coffee. The widespread appeal is undeniable, however, complete with cultural misinterpretation [or so I hope :lol: ].

Mug raised to Lisa of Omyword! for this fun find:

coffee tastes so good when you're naked with your family

Tea is also wondrous. One of the most essential elements of coffee’s goodness is its warmth, second only to its smell. Since a nice spot of tea provides that as well as the ever so crucial aroma, they’re both therapy in a mug. This is why I’m simply a proponent of grabbing a hot beverage when it’s time to take a moment for yourself. Opting to drink something hot is a win-win as it’s scrumptious if you’re cold but helps you adapt to the heat if you’re hot. I hugely respect, oft even share, the need for an ice-cold drink too; the cold coffee & tea options are, in fact, quite wonderful so what counts is that you do find moments.

Take numerous moments throughout your day & every chance you get. Whatever you’re doing, whatever your deadlines, the process can only be enhanced by a breather. You don’t have to be still with your beverage for it to be therapeutic but you’ll be better off for every pause you let it create. Try out your options while you’re at it. Not only can you add variety to otherwise mundane tasks but you’ll discover different drinks for your differing needs. I tend to drink coffee when I need a pick-me-up (though it’s ironically more psychological than physical), tea when I’m not feeling well, hot to relax, cold to wake & — aaahhh — a cappuccino to spoil myself.

Found in a gorgeous e-mail sent me by Lorraine (& again by Karen :smile: ).

heart foam artmoon foam artSaturn foam art

Given my nickname, this love affair with coffee is no surprise but there’s more to it. From the fellowship my family’s always shared over coffee to the friendship found in sharing it, I believe in the ritual of it. Tea comes with its own rich history. The simplest of tea ceremonies are powerful in action & intention. It’s the intention behind an action that gives it meaning which is why meeting over a drink offers the most return for the least effort. Other drinks will work, of course, yet it’s the savoring that’s key. I also encourage you to share the contents of a bottle, pitcher or blender as appropriate but the sipping required of something hot adds a centering effect.

Furthermore, here are Five Fantastic Reasons to Drink Coffee (Out of a Million):

  1. Protects against diabetes [type 2, in particular].
  2. Protects against liver disease [especially alcoholic cirrhosis].
  3. Caffeine in coffee can rev up the body and keep the mind alert.
  4. Coffee has powerful antioxidants [like chlorogenic acid and melanoidins].
  5. Protects against gallstones [as well as kidney stones].

What researches have also discovered is that drinking coffee is a positive addition to the lifestyle for those at-risk or already ill. Anywhere from two to six cups a day have proven beneficial. The reason? Antioxidants plus other chemical elements in the complex profile of coffee. Risk factors are reduced and scientists believe that the body’s metabolism of sugar is balanced by the compounds found in coffee. [It also contributes to fiber intake, aids in fighting asthma, protects the brain & reduces pain.]

Taking the time to have coffee or tea with someone creates a connection to them that is equally possible online. Sitting down to a hot beverage together can indeed happen here & is far more flexible than in person. Although the mechanics involved change, the intention need not. Through each other’s sites (or tweets), we can still meet. As declared in my sidebar, I consider coffee tangible friendship.. Science fiction guru, Robert A. Heinlein, created the term waterbrother to denote the bond formed when sharing water as it was considered precious in context. With open hearts & mugs pulled up to monitors, we create our a new context of precious water improved by steeping & shared asynchronously but still shared. I started this with coffee & am about to brew tea; join me?! coffee via RiverIsMyGoddess on PhotoBucket

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“Coffee is real good when you drink it, it gives you time to think. It’s a lot more than just a drink; it’s something happening. Not as in hip, but like an event, a place to be, but not like a location, but like somewhere within yourself. It gives you time, but not actual hours or minutes, but a chance to be, like be yourself, and have a second cup.”
~ Gertrude Stein ~

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Truth - Beauty - Freedom - Love

From Pooh Corner to poetry
With courage and coffee
Thru Art for art’s sake
She inspirited me

From Upstart Crow to unity
With trust and tea parties
Thru Truth for my sake
She inscribed her love

From Camp Nelson to crazy
With freedom and fantasy
Thru Faith for our sake
She inspires me still

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“A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine desert us; when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts.”
~ Washington Irving ~

Related posts on Camp Nelson:
Home is where? — when we left
Beauty, Bread and the Beloved — our return

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Life is fragile. Devastating reminders were found near & far this week. As my hunny expressed on his blog, a shooting struck close to home. Bringing a gun to a fist fight is not as unusual as we’d like; it being used to resolve the fight should be though. RhodesTer & I are not gun owners but have experience with them thus, while not proponents, do understand. When faced with such a tragedy, fingers are pointed as statistics of gun-ownership & broken families are tallied. Those end results (e.g. gun-wielding or divorce) aren’t the actual problem, it’s the attitudes (e.g. taking gun-toting or marriage lightly) that lead to them.

Life is no brief candle to me.

Lives aren’t lost to attitude but can be diminished. Whether life itself is devalued or its enrichment, the result is fewer people living their happily ever after. We live in a world where defending your family upon being attacked at your home & guilty of nothing more than being strong enough to kick butt in the process means you’re risking your life. In centuries past, that was a far more widespread & understood reality; everyone knew they were living in such a world. We take for granted a safety & fairness in line with the civilization & maturity we’re struggling to build.

We’re unprepared. We’re no more likely to recognize the impending devastation created by one person’s rash decision than as part & parcel of nature’s grand design. Human frailty is an aspect of the overall design. As with anything, balance must be had; without the capacity for extreme depths, there are no heights to achieve. Our ecosystem clearly has its own checks & balances to perform. Trying to live amongst its goings-on proves lethal time & again. While no easier to explain than human action, nature’s potentially more forgivable due to the utter lack of intent.

Without intention, unwielded wind runs amok & the resulting devastation must run its course. Before human action can be taken, nature’s violent act takes an unbearable toll. Just as the young man Rhodester was getting to know wouldn’t have guessed a gun was coming into the mix & couldn’t outrun bullets, residents of Myanmar were suddenly & brutally trapped. Maintaining that greater balance, death lurks wherever there’s life. The temptation is to give in to its inevitability & be content with survival. We readily understand that each new day is a gift but are we unwrapping them?

ambigram: carpe.diem-...-we'll.be.dead

Life is fierce. For all the ferocity we may face, nothing’s so ferocious as a life worth living. Wherever death may call – though we have no direct defense – nothing better diminishes the blow than a full life, regardless of length. Our individual happily ever afters start with no longer putting things off. It only takes a moment to start working towards a goal, implementing the plan you have for your future or rediscovering a missing piece of the puzzle that is your happiness. Give yourself a moment to start building the life you want, here & now, building up to more & more moments as you go.

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“Unbeing dead isn’t being alive.” ~ E. E. Cummings

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