From the category archives:

Friday FINDS

Energy is our most valuable resource. Our physical & mental stores of it ebb, flow & feed off each other. That’s why the attitudes we choose make such a difference; like an adrenalin rush, a determined mindset will compensate for waning physical strength. In turn, feeling refreshed will help us carry on when our minds become clouded. Since neither option is sustainable, refueling must include food for thought & thought of food. From the quick jump-starts that come in the form of a healthy snack — which does include coffee, I’ll have you know :razz: — to full-blown overhauls, we must regularly indulge in those things which feed our souls while remembering to feed ourselves along the way.

brain thinks... hand executes

That which excites the mind propels us but the momentum isn’t self-sustaining. We need to physically support that momentum to avoid running on fumes or overheating which is why rest is as important as fuel. Rather than take breaks only as needed, stay open to positive interruptions & schedule in downtime. Our lives are picture windows but made of individually framed panes. We need to step away from the pane that has our focus to bring other panes back into view. It’s from that vantage point that balance becomes possible, enabling us to use energy more efficiently. Energy is also our most renewable resource & the key to building our reserves is learning how often we each need to recharge.

Those marvelous Men with Pens addressed this need, hopefully inspiring bloggers to ask themselves if they’re just maintaining momentum or posting with motivation. I’ve always opted to post at least weeklyish & having my own computer allowed me to start posting twice a week. Better scheduled programming is brewing but, like the Pen Men, I need to focus on other panes in my window of life just now. My Anniversary prompted a couple days offline as will Rhodester’s birthday (Monday, people, Monday..) & it’s time to finish up our migration to WordPress. I’ll also be setting aside some Tivo time as my addiction to reading James’ & Harry’s Escaping Reality has reawakened my need for fiction.

What a tweet is to Twitter, a plurk sounds like it'd be to a toilet!?

Only by recognizing our own needs can we serve others’ & find the energy for either. Thus, my coffee breaks will still be spent lurking & tweeting if not plurking. I’ll no doubt need to call on those of you with WordPress experience & then on the rest of you for a break from the madness. Offline friends are few & far between for me as the connections & reconnections I have with people I’ve physically met are made possible via my internet connection too so there’s little distinction. Seeing each of you as a friend — with those who haven’t commented or tweeted my direction simply being the ones I haven’t met yet — is why I can appreciate a meme now & again. So, blame Bob or thank him:

4 jobs I’ve had

  • fashion show coordinator
  • optometrist’s assistant
  • retail manager
  • stage manager

4 movies I can watch over & over

  • The Abyss
  • Alien Quadrilogy
  • The Fifth Element
  • A Knight’s Tale

4 places I’ve lived

  • Ashland, OR
  • Hollywood, CA
  • Huntington Beach, CA
  • Palm Springs, CA

4 [current] TV shows I love

  • Criminal Minds
  • House
  • NCIS
  • NUMB3RS

4 places I’ve been on vacation

  • Paris w/weekends in Edinburgh & London
  • San Diego, CA (RhodesTer also once lived there)
  • Seattle, WA w/a hop to Victoria, BC
  • Walt Disney World (have yet to take Rhodester)

4 of my favorite dishes

  • Bagel & Lox w/capers
  • Hangtown Fry
  • Spinach Quiche
  • Spring Salad (Walnuts, Gorgonzola & Cranberries)

4 websites I [could] visit daily

4 places I’d rather be now

  • a beach w/a bonfire
  • Porterville Convalescent Hospital
  • San Francisco, CA
  • Scotland (Hi Christopher!)

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“Love the moment and the energy of the moment will spread
beyond all boundaries.”
~ Sister Corita Kent ~

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Lookin’ for a little link love?! You may not have thought so but who can resist alliteration? Not I! Nor can I resist some well-placed love. The link lovin’ has been widespread lately, from Carolyn’s ingenious ‘Once Upon a Bloggy Night’ link meme through Harry’s excellent response to Bob’s thoughtful consideration of how best to do link posts. From the standpoint that there can never be enough love, I’m continuing the trend. This here first link post o’ mine will contain the blogs I read consistently via my personalized link aggregator; to wit, Twitter.

Failing to find the link from one “Found Fridays” post to the next? With a splash more alliteration & while speaking of linkage, I’m also taking this chance to reconsider my series of “Friday Finds.” The series/category was established to share each week’s found moments, either within or online. Although I am sharing my finds from week to week, there’s no consistency to the type of post it creates. I’d love feedback from those of you who’ve read more than one :shock: as I will be changing things up & will also be making Drink Deeply more interactive over time.

Take a tour of bloggers I follow on Twitter via the text links & discover the Twitterers behind the blogs via the avatars..

brettlegreefailing and vikings
Brett meets challenges bravely
6 Weeks at a time

Carolyn Bahmtweets, family, peeps
Carolyn Bahm‘s a dot com
reader, writer, friend

Brian ClarkBrian and his quotes
Copyblogger gives good guest
advice worth reading

Jamie Grovefictional finesse
expressing How Not To Write
Jamie keeps it real

inspiremetodayGail highlights our best
to Inspire Me Today™
with more to explore

IttyBizNaomi’s got game
telling insanity off
IttyBiz or not

Wendi Kellypositive ripples
Life’s Little Inspirations
Wendi’s finding them

LiveWorkDreamJim, René, Jerry
Live.Work.Dream. to love.laugh.teach.
all on seven legs

elle nissenrandomly helpful
Elle’s observations and finds
reveal Lolo’s Way

James Cpens wielded, blogs saved
front-man James trades barbs and wit
half the Men with Pens

Harrison McLeodbalanced by Harry
both wise and fantasy-filled
he lends mirth, reason

MindTweetsMindTweaks sought then shared
curious and questioning
Tori explores self

Lisa WinesOmyword! she’s fun
honest and hilarious
Lisa’s journeying

Paulo Coelhoquotes, queries, insights
Paulo Coelho’s blogging
ready to connect

Darren RowseDarren’s instructive
ProBlogger experience
humanly offered

remarkabloggerRemarkablogger!
Michael considers details
reaching past the page

RhodesTertho’ poignant at times
he couldn’t be funnier
that RhodesTer o’ mine

Dave NavarroDave’ll Rock Your Day
no holds barred nor punches pulled
just self-improvement

rogueink swordplay, grammar, drinks
straight-shootin’ Tei saves the day
with Rogue Ink to spare

spiritualtrampinterests galore
Scott’s Spiritual Tramping
brought his own angels

SwanShadowSwanShadow reflects
commentary, comic art
wry sense of humor

Bob Youncewriters are dreaming
via Bob’s Writing Journey
dreamers are writing

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great people sharing
I’m found in and by these sites
ideas opened

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Rethink.Ever have one of those weeks? Not a bad one, mind you, but not what you’d anticipated. I’m not one for planning; instead, I prioritize & reprioritize. Amidst goals that must be set, life comes along its merry way. I don’t want to miss anything life may throw my way & I’m determined to heed opportunities as they arise. Thus, I go about my days steadily working toward my goals but with the caveat that I’m not going to achieve them any faster by letting the rest of my life slip by unappreciated.

Accomplishment for its own sake will prove empty & incomplete without an infusion of life’s nuances. To ensure you’re not so preoccupied by the goal you miss out on the journey, rethink your current to-do list. Be ready to set it aside to keep your life improving not just progressing. Someone may need to talk, your cat may need to play, you may need to play or you might not be working as efficiently as you could. Allow yourself to be interrupted as it not only keeps your brain active but helps maintain a fresh perspective. In turn, allow yourself to say no – no to a tweet, phone call or chat that can wait – no to things unless they’re timely or productive in themselves.

Deadlines remain the priority; a more fluid approach to productivity simply allows us to meet them differently. We find what works for each of us through trial & error. If we’re not failing, we’re not trying new things. The tried & true may get the job done but there’s little room for learning, much less exploring, in the process. It’s about learning to work smarter rather than harder because working efficiently doesn’t have to mean working doggedly. Reevaluate how you’re working. Stress, in particular, is proof current methods aren’t working well. Although not stressful per se, my return to being online full-time was proving difficult. Due to not being able to prioritize online endeavors for so long, they’d become fragmented. With so much to catch up on & much more to accomplish, I’ve been dutifully plugging away since my return last month.

Wizard behind the curtainDuty doesn’t mean a damn without honor. For all my efforts, I knew full well I wasn’t going to make real progress til I started honoring how I needed to function not merely that I needed to function. Thus, despite my commitment to post here at least twice a week, I finally found myself reorganizing my digital life instead. Simply put, by setting aside my priorities this week, I’ve had the time to streamline how I go about them & won’t be struggling to maintain them hereafter. Don’t stop at knowing what to do & how to do it, keep changing things up til you discover how best to do it. If you find yourself frustrated or a task seems harder than it should, take a break from it to see what’s going on behind the scenes. Never be afraid to look behind the curtain; if you’re not already the wizard, it’s time to take over.

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“Common sense is the knack of seeing things as they are, and doing things as they ought to be done.”
~ Josh Billings ~

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