We’ve all seen them, many of us read them & a few even answer them. It’s not surveys themselves that have me baffled but what (little) is done with them. If still young enough that you’re getting to know yourself as much as others; all those short, sparse answers make sense. Survey after survey becomes the teen equivalent of Speed Dating. Throw ideas out there, the quicker the better so that more & more can be tried on for size. Amidst discovery of self, even not changing every answer makes a bit of sense. If you agree with the previous survey-taker’s response, nothing’s wrong with a time-saving ‘me too’ but why not actually say it?
The opportunity to connect with people, to compare & contrast what makes each of you you is a worthy undertaking. It’s phenomenal that the internet allows such pursuits to far outreach our previous grasp. With so many people to potentially reach, no wonder there’s a frenzy to utilize all the tools at our disposal. Of course, the aforementioned quality vs quantity is bound to come into play. Is it really better to offer more replies to that universal “Who are YOU?” than thoughtful ones?! If no time is taken to think while you’re literally in the process of learning what you think, what’s the point?
Here’s the thing: Surveys could be both ingenious & fun. An excellent start; if a yes/no question were elaborated upon, actual dialogs could be spawned. Let’s get past the games & use the madness to our advantage. Treat a survey more like ‘truth or dare‘ (SOME games are transcendent); never delete a question you’re not comfortable answering, admit that about yourself. Not only is honesty good for the soul but that simple fact tells the reader something about you. After all, isn’t that the goal? Towards that end, truth to self may mean an utter lack of truth is called for. By all means, lie but lie BIG!
Whether you’re of my more soulfully explorative ilk or RhodesTer‘s entertainingly maniacal one, don’t hesitate to participate. Granted, not all surveys are created equal. Those with queries that get you talking about yourself, honestly or in jest (just make it obvious which 
), offer the chance at a virtual conversation. Like with so much else, ahem – marriage, it’s not partaking in surveys that’s ridiculous but doing so unthinkingly. Such exercises in sharing will not be for everyone but, for those of us who think a friend is just a stranger whose survey we haven’t read yet, let’s not only take part but do so with gusto..
THREE THINGS
Three things that scare me:
Three people who make me laugh:
Three Things I love:
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Three Things I hate:
Three things I don’t understand:
Three things on my desk:
Three things I’m doing right now:
Three things I want to do before I die:
Three things I can do:
Three ways to describe my personality:
Three things I can’t do:
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I posted the survey on myspace, I really like this one.
Happy Birthday, dear friend and ex-neighbor. Hope your outing to the coffee shop and beyond was brimming with adventure.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEETIE!!! HOPE YOU’RE 39TH HOLDS MANY HAPPY MEMORIES, NOT THE LEAST OF WHICH IS THE BUS RIDE TO PALM SPRINGS…LOL….HOPE YOU HAVE AN AWESOME TIME
BLESSINGS
LEANN
It is indeed one of the better surveys so I’m glad you used it. Hopefully others will follow suit. |_|)
Three ways to describe [Sheryl's] personality:
1: funny
2: shy
3: creative
Thank you, dear neighbor & ex-friend; no, wait.. Seriously tho’, twas a nice outing if a bit too adventurous given how difficult the walk back from the bus proved.
|_|) “Life is either a great adventure or nothing.” ~ Helen Keller
Not only do I think it’s hella cool to have embarked on my 40th year but the day of embarkation (a.k.a. my birthday
) was pretty swell: Dave’s shift @ Starbucks was a short one so we arrived in time to have breakfast then I hung w/a book, cappuccino & muffin til his break. Target’s thankfully in the same lot so it was off to my fave shopping spot & Dave joined me there after work to help me finish spending my birthday money. Finally, a bus to downtown Palm Springs took us to Ruby’s for dinner where I was treated like a birthday superstar!
|_|) “Because time itself is like a spiral, something special happens on your birthday each year: The same energy that God invested in you at birth is present once again.” ~ Menachem Mendel Schneerson
ahh now THIS one is even better than the one I had. I’m SO glad you shared the link!!
I think often we do the best with the joys we can share, and leave the fears behind us as much as possible, which is good until they happen to sneak up on us!!
Fear, as they say, is the mind killer and knowing you as I do you don’t let your fears get in the way of the light that you shine for the world.
Love to you Dearest CoffeeSister, next time I have sushi I will be thinking of you too, never doubt it! *grin*